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GHOONGHAT

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GHOONGHAT..... aaj jab corona ka dour hai har koi ghooghat ki aadh me muh chupae ghoom rha hai ,,,jo  kabhi khte the ki hmne kya galti ki hai jo ghoonghat me muh chupae ...vo bhi bina kisi k khe poora poora din ghoonghat me hain janab.......or ab khte hai "thak gye vo log mask lga lga kar jo kehte the ki ghoonghat me rha kro".  Gazab ka dour hai.......🤣🤣

Generation gap

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GENERATION GAP Aaj ke time per families mein  hone wali problems mein generation gap ek common sa topic hai. Generation gap to parents aur bacchon ke beech, in law's me,ya teachers aur students me hota hai .but teacher aur students  me problems km hoti hain kyuki ye log zyada time saath me nhi spend krte.... Do alag generations,do alag soch jab saath me rehti hai to problems create krti hain,,,ek tajurbedar to doosra technical,educated,,,,naya purana nhi accept krta to purane ko ntapan nhi bhata or fir hote hai "PANGE" lekin ye samajhna bhi to zaroori hai ki khi tajurba he kaam aata hai to khi new technology.Bacha ja sakta hai is situation se agr samajh le ki  1.sirf hame he sab kuch nhi aata 2.apni baat ko tassali se baith kr samajha kar .kyuki jo  baat do mint ke pyar se samjhai ja sakti h vo war se nhi samjhai ja sakti for example jab saas bahu se khti hai ki hme naa sikha bacche hamne bhi pale hai tab bahu bahas na krke changes ko samjhae ...

why expectations part-2

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In my previous article someone ask me that expectations comes naturally and how can we overcome from it?? Mera article padhne ke bad ye question to banta hai...... Main bhi manti hun ki expectations ke Jaal se bahar nikalna mushkil hai lekin impossible nahi.......as you know that "every thing is possible in this world'" Hum log jaane anjane apno se yu he EXPECTATIONS lga baithte hai bina unko explain kiye and as a result most of the time khud ko nirash kr lete h or khi na khi us insaan se disappoint ho jate h....main apne article se aapko bas itna message Dena chahti hun agar apki expectations Puri nahin Hoti to disappoint hone ki bajaye sirf itna apni habbit me Shamil karle ya ye kahu ki ek line ko Apne dimag mein baitha le ki ''EXPECTATIONS MAINE LI THI SAMNE WALE NE DI NAHIN THI"yakeen maniye aapki life me or khud aap me bhot change aayega jise aap khud notice karenge....... I think you should try to make a beautiful and better relationships......

why expectations??

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EXPECTATION  Kisi ne shi kha hai,, umeedon ke shaher mein Chirag to jala diye Hain janab....... Zara pallu sambhal kar rakhiyega,, kahin Shahar Roshan karte karte khud ka Daman Na jala lena........ EXPECTATIONS MATLAB UMMID Jo har rishte mein har kisi Ko har kisi se Hoti hai,, husband wife ko ek dusre se, parents ko, Apne bacchon se, saas ko bahu se aur Bahu ko saas se, dosti mein bhi expectations, aur to aur padosi ko padosi se expectations........ Per kya yah sahi hai... Expectations Puri ho jaaye to achcha aur na Puri Ho tu sab Bura,,, pata hai Aisa kyon hota hai kyunki ham confident hi nahin hote aur dusron per depend hote Hain aur khud hi kisi se  expectations Laga baithe jabki samne wale ne hamen koi ummid di hi nahin to vah Puri kaise Karega..... Hamen dukh hota hai to Ham usko Bura Bhala kahate  Hain uski to koi galti hi nahin kya lagta hai yah sahi hai...... Kabhi socha hai ki 2 -3 sal ka baccha hamesha khush rehta hai kyunki  vo kabhi kisi se koi expectatio...